Today I am…
seeing: dirt and grime washed away, the previously covered-with-clutter top of my desk
hearing: wind rustling through the remaining leaves on half-bare trees
feeling: the softness of freshly washed fur, the wetness of a cold doggie nose, the warmth of hot tea
tasting: salty, savory, tart, sharp, spiced
smelling: that sadly short-lived scent of freshly washed fur vaguely reminiscent of oatmeal
How about you?
Back in March, I announced a new regular blog feature: his and hers movie reviews. Don’t remember seeing any movie reviews here lately? Or at all since March? Yeaaah. Well, we’re bring it back and hopefully it’ll be here to stay this time.
TiMER (2009)
She said: I watched this one by myself on a Sunday night while Jeff was traveling for business. It’s an indie fantasy romantic comedy set in a world where you can get an implant in your wrist to countdown to the exact moment you’re supposed to meet your soulmate. The main problem is our love-obsessed main character’s timer is still blank. This movie had a good premise and explored some interesting ideas, but ultimately fell a little flat. Rating: 2.5/5
Death Note (2006)
She said: This is the live-action version of the popular manga and anime series of the same name. Well, it’s actually just part 1 of 2, but we probably won’t be watching part 2. It was an interesting take on the original, but the few special effects (for the shinigami, if you’re familiar with the story) were laughably bad. There’s no reason to watch this if you’ve seen the anime, and since the anime exists there is really no reason to watch this at all. Rating: 2.5/5
He said: An adequate adaptation of the Death Note anime into live action. The actors they chose for the main characters Light and L were quite good, but the overall execution was lacking. A lot of the intense back-and-forth between Light and L was omitted for time, and some of the plot points were adjusted to make them shorter. If you’re already a fan of the manga or anime, just imagine that someone took out all the non-essential action and dialog, and then had real people act it out. No matter how good the acting, you’re going to feel cheated. Also, the computer animation was shockingly bad. Poor Ryuk looked like a trash compactor with wings. Rating 2.8/5
The Brothers Bloom (2008)
She said: This is another indie romantic comedy with a lot of heart, style, and wit. The plot revolves around two con men brothers taking on their last con together: one willingly, one unwillingly. Then, of course, there’s the girl who is rich, eccentric, ready for adventure, and ready to be conned. While it has several funny and inspired moments, it doesn’t completely click. However, it was an overall enjoyable ride. Rating: 3.5/5
He said: Best line of the movie: “My brother writes cons like Russian poets write novels, with thematic arcs and embedded symbolism, and he cast me as the vulnerable anti-hero.” This line was delivered by Bloom (Adrian Brody), the younger brother of lifelong con artist Stephen (Mark Ruffalo). Bloom lives an emotionally and spiritually unsatisfying life as the main character in his brother’s elaborate cons. He wants to live a real life, but he no longer knows how. The story, which tells their final con through Bloom’s eyes, will keep you interested to the end. Rating: 3.5/5

Iron Man 2 (2010)
She said: I loved the first Iron Man, and I have to admit I have a soft spot for Gwyneth Paltrow. While I’m not really an action movie aficionado (fights and battles usually put me to sleep), Iron Man is just a really cool character. Maybe it’s because if I could pick any super hero ability, I’d pick flying. Maybe it’s the likable bad boy redemption story. Maybe it’s all the sweet tech he plays with. Maybe it’s just Gwyneth Paltrow. While not as good as the original, Iron Man 2 is still a decent story and a well-made movie. Rating: 3.5/5
He said: A servicable summer blockbuster, but it lacked the tight, well-constructed storytelling of the original. It’s a fun way to spend 90 minutes, and it starts several potentially compelling story lines, but the movie fails to wrap them into a something significant. Rating: 3/5

Sunset Boulevard (1950)
She said: A classic in every sense of the word, I now understand why this Billy Wilder film is regarded as one of Hollywood’s greatest. It is a dark and somewhat disturbing view into the lengths to which people will go to get what they want, particularly in the cutthroat world of Hollywood. The writing, characterization, acting, cinematography, costumes (Edith Head!), sets, and music are all superb. I particularly liked the first-person POV narration of story. While not always easy to watch, I got the feeling I was seeing true art unfold before me. It ends with the iconic, tragic line: “All right, Mr. DeMille, I’m ready for my close-up.” Rating: 4.5/5
He said: You’ve undoubtedly seen a dozen parodies of the most famous scene in this movie. And if, like me, you’ve never actually seen the whole movie, you might wonder why anyone would watch a movie about a creepy, crazy, has-been actress. It turns out that Sunset Boulevard is actually a really compelling story. It’s narrated in a very disarming way, from the point of view of a novice Hollywood movie writer who is drawn into a depraved life that part of him accepts and part of him hates. But, more importantly, the movie examines the kind of psychological tortures that can come upon people who are granted mass popularity — and then have it taken away. Sunset Boulevard should be required watching for any young movie star. Rating: 4/5
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Many people around the blogosphere participate in “Thankful Thursday”—a weekly reminder to count your blessings not just at Thanksgiving time. Well, thanks in part to my mom, each day in November leading up to Thanksgiving Day I’m going to be focusing on a different thing I am thankful for. I’ll be posting an update of these daily thanks each Thursday.
I would love it if you participated, too, either on your own blog (let me know and I’ll link to you) or here in the comments. Even when hard times come, we can always find something to be thankful for. In fact, I find that it is during those difficult times that it is most important.
My real-life friend, Cindy, is doing a Gratitude Project on her blog this month. I encourage you to visit and, if you wish, play along there.
Day 1: My good health
Lately it seems I’m hearing more and more stories of cancer or unexpected death or disease all around me. And it’s not just older people, but people near my own age. I do not want to take my good health for granted. It’s a blessing from God, and today I’m focusing on being a good caretaker of the body and health He’s given me.
Day 2: My country
Today is election day. While I grow tired of politicking and mudslinging and polarizing arguments, I’m forcing myself to focus on the positives: the freedom to vote without fear of harassment or retribution is indeed a gift and privilege. I am mostly proud to be an American.
Day 3: My husband
It might sound expected or even cliche to say I am thankful for my husband, but it’s true nonetheless. I’m thankful God has given us a strong marriage, equally yoked. I have many single friends who’d rather not be single, and not everyone who is married can say they have a strong marriage. Jeff shows me patience and grace despite my many failings as a wife and human being. He’s smart and funny and fun to be with. He’s willing to compromise when we don’t see eye to eye. He begged me for a dog until I gave in. He works hard to provide for us. I am extremely thankful for the person he is.
Day 4: My different families
Each time I’ve moved to a different place, God has provided a new family of friends to surround me. In college I had a few different groups of good friends, but one actually earned the nickname of family: my Soccer Family. When I moved to Cincinnati after graduation, the church we eventually settled on didn’t have members per say, but you can become “family.” And FBC really does feel like our family, especially our small group and a couple we call Mommer and Popper. Then there are actual blood families, like the H’s, that have always welcomed me (and now Jeff) as if I were one of them.
Of course, there are our own blood families. My family is not traditionally close for different reasons, but I have fabulous parents and siblings who care about me. When I married Jeff, I gained another family. It is a unique and wonderful feeling to join another family who welcomes you with open arms and whom you can call your own.
The No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency by Alexander McCall Smith
My rating: 3.5 of 5 stars
Alexander McCall Smith has quickly become one of my favorite authors. I’ve already written about 44 Scotland Street and Corduroy Mansions. However, his most well-known and popular series is The No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency. It has even been turned into an HBO TV series (which I have not seen).
This book introduces Precious Ramotswe, who at the beginning of the story has just gained an inheritance from her father and plans to set up the first ladies’ private detective agency in her native Botswana. Precious is a smart, independent, enterprising, and kind woman. She finds success mostly due to a combination of keen observation of detail, acute knowledge of and care for people, and sheer determination and will. She inevitably has a calming cup of red bush tea on hand to share with clients and friends alike.
I found the book to start out a little slow and it took me awhile to form an attachment to Mma. Ramotswe. Smith’s writing is as good as ever, but I just didn’t jive with the characters as quickly as his other books. However, by the end of the book, I found myself growing found of this plump motswana woman with the little white van. It’s also interesting to learn about the country and culture of Botswana.
Like his other books, The No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency is a light read and a refreshing breath of air. When you’ve had a hard day, it’s nice to pick up something as pleasant as an Alexander McCall Smith novel for some well-written escapism. Really, I’d give this 3.5 stars, and I plan to continue reading the series.
Today I am…
smelling: paint fumes, flowers given by a dear friend
feeling: warm, soft, coziness of my favorite blanket; thankful for good health
tasting: pomegranate kefir; grilled cheese with pickles; sweet bread, white chicken chili, key lime cheesecake
hearing: a familiar voice narrating an audiobook; laughter in chorus of three wonderful women I am privileged to call friends
seeing: dull and dingy turned into fresh and bright; God’s gift of grace in my life
What about you?
Our good friends, Peter and Kim, host a wonderful party every October, which has come to be known as Fall Fest. This past weekend was the 5th annual Fall Fest, and Kim out did herself with the food once again. Friends start showing up at their door in the late afternoon and stay until the last log and embers have burned down in the fire pit. There’s football on the TV, cornhole in the backyard, lots and lots of good food, and much laughter and chitter chatter.

Appetizer table, already well picked over -- the mini crockpots held carmel and chocolate for dipping
This year, Kim had a soup and salad buffet! Such a fabulous idea for a fall party, and well executed. We all got to rate the six different soups, though I never did hear which was most popular.

Kim, hostess extraordinaire, explaining the set up
I tried the chicken tortilla, pumpkin, creamy potato cheese, and country sausage chili. Personally, the chicken tortilla was my favorite, and I even went back for seconds.



We were blessed with a gorgeous sunset! It was the perfect crisp fall evening to be outside.
Once it got dark enough, the boys were excited to play Mario Kart on the big screen that Peter set up in the back yard.
Ivy wanted to get in on the cornhole action, but she had trouble trying to climb up the slippery board.
As if we hadn’t already stuffed ourselves silly with dinner, there was dessert too! Pumpkin pie, apple pie, and ice cream.
The lighting in the house was awkward for photos, but the fire pit made a fun subject.





























